Dating Guide: 15 Cheap Date Ideas
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By Diana Vilibert for Marie Claire
Photo: ©iStockphoto.com/G Studio
Updated: May 22, 2009
A
lighter wallet is no excuse to turn date night into a luxury. Get out
of your sweatpants, put down the cold pizza, and check out these 15
budget-friendly date ideas that will get you off the couch and into
each other's arms.
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1.
Don those matching aprons. Fire up the skillet for a
night of cooking -- for the both of you. Learn how to cook each other's
favorite meal and then do it together. Whether you end up with a
delicious steak and tuna casserole for two, or speed-dialing for Chinese
takeout, you're guaranteed to enjoy the process.
2.
Get on thin ice. Depending on the weather, head to an
indoor or outdoor ice-skating rink -- it's the perfect excuse to hold
hands, "accidentally" fall on top of each other, and grab a cup of hot
chocolate and cozy up to each other to keep warm.
3.
Head to the bookstore. Walk through the aisles
together, showing each other your favorite books and bonding over the
books you both hated.
4.
Bowl him over at the bowling alley. Psych him out by
reminding him of how many gross people wore his shoes before him, and
don't forget to program his sugary-sweet nickname ("muffin-face") onto
the computerized scoreboard instead of his real name.
5.
Show him your rugged side and build something
together. Ask him to help you build something like a
coffee table or dresser for your place -- he'll be psyched that you
asked him, just as long as you can bite your tongue when the table he
puts together falls apart the moment you set your cup of coffee
down.
6. Head over to a
local car dealership. Ask him about his fantasy cars
and he'll probably talk your ear off. Head over to a local car
dealership and test-drive the most expensive car they'll let you take
out of the parking lot. Take turns with the wheel the resist the urge
to nitpick each other's driving skills.
7.
Indulge your sweet tooth with your sweetie. Visit a
chocolate or cookie factory. Do a quick Yahoo! search to see if there
are any in your area, and give them a call to see if they do tours. If
they only do group tours, make it a group date and invite a few other
couples.
8. Play 20
Questions. Whether you've been together for three
weeks or three years, there are probably things you don't know about
each other. Sit down next to each and write down 20 questions each
about the other person -- make sure they're open-ended so you don't get
boring one-word answers -- and fire away. Take turns answering each of
your questions and get to know each other a little better than you
already do.
9. Put on
your walking shoes and head to the museum. Almost all
museums have one day a week where you can get in for free or for a
small suggested donation. Pick the exhibits you each want to see
beforehand, and spend some time in each of them together.
10.
Take a class together. Sign up for a class in
something neither of you know how to do. Community schools generally
offer a ton of options for classes you can take in eight-week sessions,
from cooking to karate.
11.
Support local musicians. Wherever you live, chances
are there are a ton of local bands dying for an audience. Check out
Upcoming.org for bands in your area and check out a show. Alternate
with your guy on who gets to pick the band that weekend so that you
both get a chance to check out your favorite music genres.
12.
Celebrate the first snow of winter with a day of
sledding. Pick a hilly spot in your town and use
garbage can lids as makeshift sleds. Wear a bike helmet to up the dorky
fun factor, and celebrate living through the experience with a cup of
hot cocoa.
13. Help
your community. Bummed that you can't afford a
week-long vacation with your man? Put things in perspective and sign up
for volunteer together for a cause you both care about. TiVo Gossip
Girl and sign up to work at a soup kitchen once a week, or cuddle up
with lovable cats and dogs at your local animal shelter.
14.
Share hobbies. You can knit holiday sweaters like
nobody's business. Your man is a Guitar Hero rockstar. It's great to
have separate hobbies, but it's also fun to share. Pick a weekend to
teach each other your hobbies, and serenade him with a guitar solo
while he knits you a pair of mittens.
15.
Attend an open mic night. Grab a cup of coffee and
check out a local coffee shop's open mic night. You might luck out with
a great show, or you may find a mixed bag of angsty guitar solos and
bad poetry -- either way, you'll have something to talk (or laugh)
about on the way home.
Reprinted with permission of Hearst Communications, Inc.
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