"Every time I break up with my boyfriend, he freaks out. He showed up outside my apartment last time."

"Well sounds like you just have to break up and get it over with."

"Yeah, but it's not a good situation every time I do it."

I stopped and thought for a second. "Not a good situation?" Isn't that kind of obvious? How can anyone expect a breakup to be a good situation at all?

Breaking up is a selfish act that can be a necessary evil in your dating life. But there are easier ways to do the whole process.